Get Your Ex Back

When you first went your separate ways, you may not have thought you would ever be concerned about how to get your ex back. Now that the anger and hurt has subsided, you may not even remember if it was your idea, hers, or by mutual agreement that the breakup occurred. All you know is that you are ready to get her back and you don\'t know where to start. Here are some tips on what you should and shouldn\'t do to improve your odds: 1. Don\'t be a pushover. Even if she complained during your relationship that you were too overbearing, that doesn\'t mean she wants a man who isn\'t strong enough to stand up to her. Threatening to jump off a bridge if she doesn\'t take you back isn\'t going to make her come running back. 2. You can\'t get your ex back with flowers and gifts. If she has already lost the feeling of attraction she had for you, she probably won\'t consider coming back to the relationship unless she somehow gets that feeling back. So no matter what you give her, it isn\'t going to change the way she sees you personally. 3. There has been a lot of advice written about the importance of finding what it was that you had together in the beginning of the relationship. Realistically, people change and whatever she admired most in you in the beginning may be more of an irritant at this point than something she finds attractive. Instead, think of things that she has mentioned or responded to in a more positive way recently. Chemistry can be one of the most important ingredients to help you get your ex back and the most impressive thing you can do may be something that seems insignificant to you.